Summary
In this landmark study, sociologist Arlie Hochschild takes us into the homes of two-career parents to observe what really goes on at the end of the "work day." Overwhelmingly, she discovers, it's the working mother who takes on the second shift.Hochschild finds that men share housework equally with their wives in only twenty percent of dual-career families. While many women accept this inequity in order to keep peace, they tend to suffer from chronic exhaustion, low sex drive, and more frequent illness as a result. The ultimate cost is the forfeited health and happiness of both partners, and often the survival of the marriage itself.With a new afterword by the author, this groundbreaking study is as relevant today as when it was first published.
Table of Contents
Preface |
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Acknowledgments |
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Marriage in the Stalled Revolution |
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The Family Myth of the Traditional |
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A Notion of Manhood and Giving Thanks |
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Having It All and Giving It Up |
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An Unsteady Marriage and a Job She Loves: |
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The ``His'' and ``Hers'' of Sharing: |
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Sharing Showdown and Natural Drift: Pathways to the New Man |
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Beneath the Cover-up: Strategies and Strains |
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Tensions in Marriage in an Age of Divorce |
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Men Who Do and Men Who Don't |
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The Working Wife as Urbanizing Peasant |
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Stepping into Old Biographies or Making History Happen? |
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Afterword (1990) |
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Afterword (1997) |
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Appendix Research on Who Does the Housework and Childcare |
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Notes |
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Selected Reading |
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Index |
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